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- March 26, 2004 at 12:00 am #3639
RonMemberWhy do I like to watch my wife having sex with another man?
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Name : Ron, Gender : M, Age : 43, City : Cambridge, Ontario, State : NA Country : Canada, Occupation : driver, Social class : Lower class, April 11, 2004 at 12:00 am #22496
bill23258Participantbecause it turns you on!
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Name : bill23258, City : ft dodge, State : IA Country : United States, September 14, 2004 at 12:00 am #27154
Rick29965ParticipantI don’t know, but you have plenty of company. I liked it, too, but rarely was allowed to watch. I’ve been on line for 9 years and have been in chatrooms where this is common and I also frequent a message board where a lot of men who enjoy this post.
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Name : Rick29965, City : Miami, State : FL Country : United States, September 16, 2004 at 12:00 am #18886
Patrick KelloggParticipantWhy ask why? It’s a *fetish*… some people go crazy wondering ‘Why do I like women’s shoes’? They just do, that’s why. A better question is, ‘How can I incorporate this fantasy *with* my wife for better sex?’ Note, it’s not, ‘Now can I get her to do it.’ But asking politely, and being really really nice could get you a BIG reward. Think about it, if she wanted to, she could get you so turned on by just *talking* about the fetish that she could get ANYTHING she wanted – housecleaning or oral sex for hours. Note that she don’t actually have to have sex with another man – part of the solution could be just role-playing, ‘swinger’s parties’, reading stories. Good luck, and careful to convince your wife that this isn’t a slippery slope to weirder sex… do 3 sex sessions of her choice for every one of your fetish.
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Name : Patrick Kellogg, Gender : Male, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, Age : 35, City : Denver, State : CO Country : United States, Occupation : Self-unemployed, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, September 16, 2004 at 12:00 am #29170
turqMemberI dunno, I guess it excites you. I guess it’s like watching porn taken 2 or 3 steps further. Maybe you like to watch her reactions from another perspective. Maybe you feel like a voyeur, and it turns you on. It’s very unusual for you not to be jealous about this, but I don’t see anything wrong with it.
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Name : turq, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 25, City : Lake Charles, State : LA Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, September 17, 2004 at 12:00 am #27378
MikeParticipantI too like to watch. It is a real turn on for me. I’m a vouyer at heart so I like it. So keep on watching.
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Name : Mike, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Seventh day Adventists, Age : 36, City : Casselberry, State : FL Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, September 21, 2004 at 12:00 am #31589
Vail24486ParticipantTried it a time or two, but had very mixed feelings. Wife, on the other hand was extremely against the idea of my being with another woman.
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Name : Vail24486, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : mutt, Religion : Atheist, Age : 40, City : Philly, State : PA Country : United States, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, November 24, 2004 at 12:00 am #18013
Charlie L.MemberWatching me have sex with another woman totally turns my wife on. And I admit, it’s a thrill for me also. She often sits on the bed as I’m having sex with the other woman. And we usualy talk to one another the whole time. I tell her how great it feels. It never turns into a three-some. My wife stays dressed, although once she had me suck her breasts while the other woman performed oral sex on me.
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Name : Charlie L., Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 40, City : Everett, State : WA Country : United States, Occupation : computers, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, November 24, 2004 at 12:00 am #31661
DaveMemberIt is always a turn on to watch someone else with your wife as its good to know she is appealing to others and a great feelin to know she is yours.
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Name : Dave, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 37, City : pittsburgh, State : PA Country : United States, Occupation : self employed, Education level : Technical School, Social class : Middle class, November 26, 2004 at 12:00 am #31615
Dee WMemberI can think of several reasons a man might like to watch, please try to tell us why YOU think you like to watch and we will try to narrow it down.
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Name : Dee W, Gender : F, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 49, City : Grand Rapids, State : MI Country : United States, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, November 27, 2004 at 12:00 am #36135
Alex P.MemberThere are lots of reasons why you might enjoy watching your wife have sex with other men. You might enjoy it because of the sense of humiliation it involves — many people associate humiliation with sexual arousal. Another (and opposite) reason might be that it gives you a sense of power — you are vicariously experiencing sexual arousal while another guy does all the work. However, probably the real reason you like seeing your wife boff another guy is simple biology. Guys are visual people! Women tend to be oriented more towards physical sensuality, while it’s a scientific fact that men are more stimulated by what we see. When we’re having sex, we often don’t get to see very much during the act itself … so the act of watching your wife (who you love very much and is hopefully very sexy) screw another dude essentially gives you a hot porn show with someone you have a deep sexual connection with — better than any XXX movie you could ever rent. Hope that answers your question.
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Name : Alex P., Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 26, City : Los Angeles, State : CA Country : United States, Occupation : musician, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, November 28, 2004 at 12:00 am #25693
peteMember…i dont know specifically why you like to watch the wife w/ other men..maybe it has something to do w/ voyeuristic tendencies…i know your not alone since i have married friends who like to watch me with thier wives…heck, they even videotape it to watch again later…:D
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Name : pete, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : American Indian, Religion : Native American, Age : 50, City : Parshall, State : ND Country : United States, Occupation : communications, Education level : High School Diploma, December 28, 2004 at 12:00 am #43292
Jon27108ParticipantMost men are naturally stimulated by watching people have sex. While watching pornography, some men imagine themselves or someone they know being involved in the scene. For me, watching my wife have sex with another man is an extension of that. I’m watching a fantasy played out in front of me. She enjoys it. I enjoy watching her enjoy it. I enjoy it myself. Pretty enjoyable all around. The taboo aspect of this particular act is a turn-on as well, but not the overriding factor for me.
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Name : Jon27108, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 39, City : St. Louis, State : MO Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, June 22, 2005 at 12:00 am #41613
Tim20385Participantyou are gay
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Name : Tim20385, City : Roanoke, State : VA Country : United States, June 26, 2005 at 12:00 am #17407
Amanda20369ParticipantYou have a voyeuristic fetish. So does my husband, although he doesn’t want to watch me with other men, just masturbating. If your wife is OK with it, and you can find other players, just go with it. Consenting adults, baby! It’s not like it’s against the law. Some might say it’s immoral, but so what? The founding fathers thought anything but the missionary position was immoral, and no one believes that now. Except maybe for the Amish.
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