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    Lee H.
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    Often I’ve had gay men proposition me and get in my ‘physical space.’ I’m polite but direct when saying no, but that usually isn’t enough for them. Any advice from gay men on what I can do to avoid getting hit on?

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    Name : Lee H., Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 30, City : New York, State : NY Country : United States, Occupation : Journalist, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
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    Brent19427
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    Say ‘No.’ Firmly. Imagine yourself being female and having a guy proposition you, and you aren’t interested in the guy. What kind of response do you think would be best?

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    Name : Brent19427, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Unitarian, Age : 30, City : San Mateo, State : CA Country : United States, Occupation : Programmer, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, 
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    stephen
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    Now you know what women have been putting up with for years. Be firm but polite, say you are flattered but not interested. Take it as a compliment.

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    Name : stephen, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, Age : 35, City : Castro Valley, State : CA Country : United States, Occupation : social work, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, 
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    Greg21564
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    I would firmly say, ‘Not interested.’ Don’t be apologetic with words like ‘sorry’ or ‘no thanks.’ Some jerks might interpret that as interested but scared.

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    Name : Greg21564, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 35, City : Tulsa, State : OK Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
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