Although it is great for the ego when people pay attention to you, I wouldn’t rush into things. Sometimes guys look for easy pickings. Sometimes we broadcast our ‘eagerness’ which can work against us. The best that I can suggest is that you become involved in an aspect of community service-seniors, children, literacy etc. Just as couples who adopt children soon have their own, concentrating on helping others will bring its own dividends in helping others, and miraculously attract the people that you would like to meet.