We are not in fact pre-occupied with sex, no more than a straight couple. Granted, who we have sex with is different, but that’s all. We are as multi-faceted in our interests as anybody else. We are capable of providing as good a moral standard as the next couple. I think it’s obscene that parents who beat their children, ignore them, or are axe murderers get to keep their kids, because after all they are straight, and that’s ‘the’ most important thing- that they have sex with the right person. They return kids to parents who KILL them. And you are worried about the gender of their partner? Get with the real world.