Are you suggesting that heterosexuals should feel some pity for homosexuals? And what about bisexuals? Are they too ‘trapped’? Maybe even more so if you really want to get deep into that discussion. Why hide your sexuality? It is your choice to be what you want to be, as opposed to what some might say about ‘not having a choice’ or ‘I was born this way.’ If I had murderous tendencies or thoughts, was I ‘born’ a murderer?
Get on with it people, we are what we choose to be. We all have will power and the right to choose, but all too often we think life is something that is automatically chosen for us so we don’t have to ‘fess’ up to our own decisions in life.