Sorry Dustin, but, unless a 38-year-old woman was looking for some hot sex with a young stud like yourself, she would not want to date you. And I suspect you’re interested in her for sex as well. What could you two possibly have in common, other than sexual attraction? I don’t want you to get your feelings hurt, but hey, you’re a grown man. Take a chance. Just don’t be hurt when she “hits it and quits it.” Women are just as good at doing that as men are.