Does anyone else get tired of men being stereotyped as shallow, while women are supposedly deep and soul-searching? Everyone is attracted to attractive people. A person who has depth, true depth, seeks depth. A package that appeals to you is a great thing, and more likely than not, is the first thing that will get your attention. If you do not find the person attractive overall, you probably will not go further. If all you want is their money, or body, or whatever, male or female, then that’s probabably all you are yourself. Women don’t have some magic that makes them deep. Society teaches that women should be deep and men should be shallow. That is a crock. Don’t encourage it.