I personally do not have that much anal sex. I think most people would be surprised by the fact that a good number of gay men don’t have anal sex at all. But when I have done it in the passed, preferred to be on the giving end, ‘top.’ Being on the receiving end can and usually does hurt for me. Giving feels great, physically. But for a lot of guys who ‘bottom,’ guys on the receiving end, it feels amazing to them. I wish I was in that number. I guess it is the stimulation of the prostate that drives them crazy.