I guess I’m in the minority here because I was once obviously groped (in a train in New Jersey about 20 years ago and I was so shocked that I was speechless), and another time on my last day of work my officemate said goodbye to me by putting her hand right squarely on my upper thigh. I never knew she wanted… wow. She was beautiful, too… but kind of stupid, so it’s best nothing ever happened. Actually in the New Jersey incident I did eventually get my courage up to mumble ‘uh no thanks’ quietly, and it worked perfectly. Nobody was embarrassed, he got the message, and I hope he found a better partner. Yes it was a guy. No I’m not homosexual, I’m very non-homosexual.