Join the club… I am African (Nigeria to be exact) and for some reason i cannot date African or African American girls. It’s some type of incompatibility issue. I have had two girlfriends in my life, one Chinese and the other white. I think that’s the trend that I am going to continue in. One of the reasons why I didn’t go for a black girl is that in the area I am living in now, they dont have their head screwed on tight – they play around too much, never focus on school. Their demeanor and conduct, though, are the main factors for my preference.