The woman’s clitoris is the same kind of tissue as a man’s penis. The clitoris is located at the top of the vaginal area, and does extend within the vaginal wall to an extent. Some call this the ‘G Spot,’ and say it’s hard to find. And it is. Also, most sexual positions do not stimulate this inner clitoris. Without that stimulation, it’s as hard for you to have an orgasm as it would be for a man who didn’t get any penile stimulation. The best solution is to use your hand or a vibrator to stimulate your outer clitoris during sex, or to lie on your back during sex and tilt your pelvis almost straight up. This puts the inner clit at the right angle to be stimulated from inside. Do try it. It’s wonderful.