Sometimes as a man you want to have a little fantasy in your life. What’s more fantastic than a white man having sex with black women? Long-term relationships are not always completely satisfying to each person ALL the time, and a woman is not responsible for keeping a man sexually happy ALL the time. That would be impossible. I like porn and I like to have sex with my woman. I think of them as two separate but related things. Certainly don’t make your husband feel ashamed. Sometimes if I leave something out my girlfriend who make a joke at my expense but thats about it.