I agree, IF a guy is interested in knowing what makes his girlfriend/wife tick. However, some guys don’t care and would prefer to just not know. So do you have a ‘recommended reading’ list that you’d share? I haven’t gone as far as buying a cheesy romance novel, but in my quest to ‘figure women out,’ I acquired a book that is a collection of erotic short stories written by women. They have all been quite interesting, some very exciting, some a little disturbing. But I think women are so diverse in their sexuality that the most important thing is to find out from your partner what she particularly likes/dislikes.