If thats YOUR preference and you dont try to push your preferences onto others, then there is no problem. Its when people with those kind of views try to make others bend to thier will that the problems start. The other issue is that why do you think it would confuse your daughter to see you with someone of another race? She will undoubtedly know that the white person you are with isnt her biological father, so what difference would it make to her that her step father is white or otherwise? In fact, seeing you loving a different ethnicity might broaden her views on race…. But your preference is your preference.