It was a long time before I enjoyed performing oral sex on a man. I had bad experiences and I felt degraded. I think many women feel oral sex is degrading. I never perform oral sex now unless i feel 100% comfortable. I enjoy it more now because I don’t feel like I have to do it and it makes me want sex. If you are not comfortble performing it, please don’t do it. There are many other forms of foreplay that you can participate in that should be pleasing to you and to the man. If you do it simply to ‘please’ the man, I feel that you are allowing yourself to be degraded and it can be very damaging to your self esteem.