I used to really hate it when a guy asked for oral sex. But now that I am married, I do it to please my husband. I don’t like it as much as he likes returning the favor, but I like to see him happy and satisfied. If you think of it that way and really care about the person, I think you kind of learn to enjoy it, or the benefits that it brings. But when it all comes down to it, it is a personal choice.