Here’s my method of helping ladies overcome aversion to performing oral sex on men (me in particular). You personally wash your partner’s penis with soap and water. Also, rinse thoroughly and dry. This will ease your anxiety about cleanliness, odor and taste. If it is done in the right spirit, it can be a sensual experience for your lover. It is important to at least get the complete head of the penis (the part that looks like a helmet) in your mouth. Before taking the penis in your mouth, take a deep breath and hold that breath until you have inserted the penis in as far as you are comfortable. This will suppress the gag reflex. You can breath now. Next, do not suck or blow, but push your tongue firmly against the shaft, and while maintaining this pressure, rotate your tongue completely around the circumference of the helmet and shaft. Be sure to keep your teeth clear at all times. Rotate your tongue as described over and over. Speed isn’t the object. Remember this to motivate you: master this technique and you will make any lover your slave.