Have you thought of why you find giving oral sex aversive? I know some people (men and women) look at giving oral sex to their partner (again male or female) as unclean due to the other functions down there. When my son (he is 22) came to me complaining that his girlfriend wanted him to give her oral if she were to do the same for him, he said his problem was ‘there is always something going on down there’ I have not heard any further problems since I suggested that maybe they should think of commencing such activities in the shower. As far as technique, one of the best books I have found on not only oral but other activities was one called ‘Sex Tips For Straight Women From A Gay Man.’ Makes sense when you think the author knew from both the giving and receiving ends lol. And other thing: work your way toward bit by bit over time. Nibbling on earlobes, nipples, any place you are sensitive chances are your man is also.
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I know some women enjoy performing oral sex on men. I have never enjoyed this, and, in fact, it is a huge turn-off for me. I try to be as sensitive to my partner’s needs as I can, and I know many men enjoy this, but I can’t get past my aversion to it. Does anyone have advice for me?
Jezek, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation: Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 45, City : Mountain View, State : CA, Country : United States, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class